...so annoying.
I've been yapping about how i prefer to have guy friends than girls for years. But lately, i realized that it's really not about the person's gender (duh?). It's really about choosing someone with no, or at least bearable, attitude problem.
First of all, i really wanted to say sorry to a dear friend of mine (you know who you are) for the embarrassment I've caused you twice already. Sometimes it really is better to keep you social circles away from each other. Haaayyyzzzness....
Anyways, back to my topic. *rant alert*
My current problem with guys is when they try to play you by saying flowery words, but when the time comes that you have to dump them, they will do their darn best to deny everything, making you look like a total fool.
They'll say uber flirty things, that is incredibly obvious that they're trying to win your heart (or whatever part of your body), but when you say "no", they'll say "Ang assuming mo naman! Kala mo naman nililigawan kita! Kapal mo ah!". LECHE!
You are trying you best to clear things up without hurting the guy, then they would repay you by calling you names such as "feeler", "assumer", "nagmamaganda", etc. etc. etc. Seriously, guys, do you really like the girl you're doing your moves on o sadyang pinagtitripan niyo lang sila? If you really like the girl, why all of a sudden be bitter about the fact that she doesn't see you see her, and worse, call her names to ease degraded macho level?
Schadenfreude.
Thanks to Avenue Q, I learned a new German word that means taking pleasure from someone else's pain. I do bet it's your pride that's talking. Why can't you just accept that the girl doesn't like you? It's not her fault that you're not her type. Hell! It's not even her fault if you're not likable at all! Well, maybe you are likable, but she said "no" because she is already in a relationship... it's also not her fault if someone came earlier than you.
And for those who really use flowery words(yeah, right...), please stop it. Pointless flirting really doesn't help because it does really get women confused**. Plus it's super annoying if we don't like you. Eww... creepy.
**see this post about
pointless flirting by alwaysanxious======
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Im' so sorry if i haven't been active lately. I'm so busy juggling my paperworks and my CSI dvd marathons. Hehehe! But still, i am thankful to those who continue to support my works. The watches, comments, faves are highly appreciated. Seriously. I haven't been shooting in a while, so i'll try to cook something up for all of you... ayt? Take care, guys, and i'll see you soon.
- Roxy
